Cold hard facts: He will have to be punished. You will eventually recover. (Like any kind of grief, it may never be "OK" but you will learn to live with it.) Therapy may be required.
A pattern my own father and I repeated all too often. The best I can offer is that I really do understand.
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Date: 2009-12-14 12:27 am (UTC)He will have to be punished.
You will eventually recover. (Like any kind of grief, it may never be "OK" but you will learn to live with it.)
Therapy may be required.
A pattern my own father and I repeated all too often. The best I can offer is that I really do understand.
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Date: 2009-12-14 12:29 am (UTC)At least I get to go and see Aladdin ... *grumbles more*
You have no idea how much I want to be in Preston ...
... oops! Of course you do! We're like minded people!
But at least you didn't have the rug pulled from under you at last minute (and not in an Aladdin's flying carpet TAKING ME TO PRESTON kind of way ...)